Parenting Challenges or Relationship Challenges??
Ceara Deno, MD • May 14, 2025
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Parenting Challenges or Relationship Challenges??
Does this sound familiar?
It’s one of those parenting moments where everything is spiraling — but instead of getting support from your partner, you feel...
...even more alone?
Maybe you're trying to stay calm and connected with your sensitive child.
But then your partner walks in with a completely different energy: yelling, punishing, or undoing everything you just tried to do.
Or maybe you’re the one setting limits and getting frustrated because your partner always swoops in to rescue the child.
So then you’re left feeling like the “bad guy.”
Here’s the truth I’ve seen again and again:
A lot of the hardest parenting moments aren’t just about your child… they’re about your relationship.
You and your partner want the same thing.
A peaceful home, a thriving child, and a parenting approach that actually works.
But when stress levels rise, and your fears get triggered…
...you can end up on opposite teams.
Here are just a few common couple dynamics that show up disguised as parenting problems:
1.) The “good cop / bad cop” dynamic:
One parent leads with empathy, the other with structure — and they both feel undermined.
2.) Feeling unsupported:
One parent sets a boundary, the other unknowingly undoes it.
3.) Arguing about the child, but it’s really about each other:
Resentments build, and the child’s behavior becomes a battlefield.
4.) One partner feels deprioritized:
When all the nurturing goes to the child, the other adult feels invisible.
5.) Differences in parenting styles feel personal:
What started as a disagreement about bedtime now feels like a rejection of your identity.
If any of this feels familiar, I want you to know:
You’re not failing.
You’re just human — and trying to raise a sensitive child in a high-stress environment, without a shared playbook, is really hard.
But you don’t have to keep doing this alone — or stuck in survival mode.
I help parents of highly sensitive kids learn how to support their child and reconnect as a parenting team — even if they see things differently.
If you're ready for less blame and more connection, I’d love to talk.
We can figure out where you’re getting stuck, where your parenting styles may be clashing, and how to get back on the same team — for your child and for each other.
Sending lots of love,
Ceara
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