When your child hates reading

Your kid hates reading. 

He would rather do something on a screen. Or do sports.  Or do anything, really. 

I get it.  We are all human.  Screens are enticing. 

Reading takes mental focus and attention.  It’s an investment of time and energy.  It can be hard for reluctant readers to see the point. 

So how do you get a reluctant kid to read?  And love reading?

You don’t focus on only challenging material.  Let them read things that are fun and easy.  We want reading to be enjoyable.  Don’t become obsessed with your child only reading above their grade level.

You don’t forget to buy books.  Or to go to the library.  Or the bookstore. 

You don’t forget to read in front of them—for fun.  You are their model.  If they don’t see that you read for fun, why should they?

You don’t insist on which books your kid should read.  Choosing their own books is a huge way kids assert their individuality and personality. 

You don’t let screens dominate.  You need to make screen-free times to let reading flourish.  You even need to allow kids to feel—gasp—bored occasionally.  In that space, reading can take root. 

Some readers just need more encouragement.  That's OK.  The screens will still be there when you get back.