Picking up the pieces
Things fall apart
Sometimes in small ways
Sometimes in BIG, scary ways
How do we cope?
Recently, I have spent a lot of time thinking about this
What best supports me might be different than what best supports you
What supports you most?
1.) Moving into action; having choices and freedom
2.) Finding community; creating connections
3.) Becoming educated; learning more; finding experts
4.) Creating stability, structure and plans
We all use many strategies when things fall apart—not just one
But knowing our DEEPEST need and highest values can be helpful
To getting the right support that helps the most
What Really Happens When You Reach Out to a Parent Coach
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